From Membership to Ministry: How to Build a Culture Where Everyone Serves, Gives, and Belongs
What if one word could shift your church from passive attendance to passionate participation?
That word is OWNERSHIP.
“We believe every Christ-follower should belong to a local church and take ownership of that church. Ownership includes serving, giving, and participating in biblical community.” — Ron B. Smith Jr.
Ownership isn’t just a buzzword — it’s the DNA of a healthy, growing church. It fuels the five core values every thriving congregation lives by:
- Found people find people
- Saved people serve people
- Growing people change
- You can’t do life alone
- You can’t out give God
But here’s the truth: Culture starts at the top — and works its way down.
If your church struggles with:
- “The church just isn’t very generous.”
- “Nobody ever wants to volunteer.”
- “People are flaky — I never know if they’ll show up.”
…then it’s time to stop complaining and start leading with ownership.
Here’s how to build an ownership culture in your church — step by practical step.
Step 1: Find the Strengths — Don’t Fixate on Weaknesses
“Focusing on the negative makes you miss the positive — and invites more negativity.”
It’s human nature to see what’s broken. But great leaders see what’s working and amplify it.
Action Steps:
- Publicly celebrate wins in sermons, emails, and social media. Example: “Last week, 12 people served in children’s ministry — thank you for owning the mission!”
- Interview 3 faithful volunteers — ask: “What do you love about serving here?”
- Leverage strengths: If hospitality is strong, expand it. If worship is powerful, invite more musicians.
Pro Tip: Start every leadership meeting with “What’s going right?” before “What needs fixing?”
Step 2: Encourage More Than You Correct
“Encourage more than you correct. Put grace in the bank before you make a withdrawal.”
Paul’s letters always began with thankfulness — even to the messy Corinthians!
Action Steps:
- Send 3 personal encouragement notes per week (text, email, or handwritten).
- Use the 5:1 ratio: 5 encouragements for every 1 correction.
- Model Paul’s pattern:
- Grace
- Peace
- Thanksgiving
- Truth in love
Example Script: “I thank God every time I remember you. Your faithfulness in [specific area] is changing lives. Let’s keep growing together in [area of challenge].”
Step 3: Lead Out in the Ownership Role
“The negative culture isn’t all your fault — but changing it is your responsibility.”
You can’t control people. But you can model ownership.
Stop Complaining. Start Solving.
| Complaint | Ownership Response |
|---|---|
| “No one serves” | “I will serve first and invite others to join me.” |
| “Giving is low” | “I will give generously and teach biblical stewardship.” |
| “People don’t show up” | “I will build community that makes people want to be here.” |
Action Steps:
- Be the first to serve — greet, clean, set up chairs.
- Share your giving testimony (anonymously if needed).
- Teach ownership monthly in sermons and small groups.
Key Truth: “The attitude of your followers will eventually reflect how you’re leading.”
Step 4: Give It Away — People Can’t Own What You Keep
“If you own it all, church leaders have nothing to own.”
Your job? Equip. Train. Empower. Release.
Say it loud and often:
“What you do pays your bills — but who you are is a minister in Jesus Christ.”
Action Steps:
- Create a “Ministry Match” process (more below).
- Delegate one new responsibility this month.
- Celebrate when someone leads better than you — that’s success!
Step 5: Never Depend on Your Own Understanding — Ask God
“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God…” (James 1:5)
Every great leader in Scripture felt in over their head. That’s the point.
Action Steps:
- Pray daily: “Lord, give me wisdom to lead Your people into ownership.”
- Form a prayer team for culture change.
- Fast quarterly as a leadership team for breakthrough.
The 3-2-1 Ownership Launch Plan
3: Educate – Organize – Invite
| Step | Action |
|---|---|
| Educate | Teach what commitment to Christ means. Don’t assume they know. |
| Organize | Share the church mission/vision (annual theme). Direction fuels commitment. |
| Invite | Call every member to serve. “You are a necessary part of the body” (1 Cor 12:22). |
2: Evaluate – Develop
Interview → Engage → Equip → Empower
- Engage: Just ask. “Would you pray about serving in [ministry]?”
- Equip:
- Spiritual gifts test
- Ministry opportunities menu
- Pair with a mentor
- Train:
- Monthly training tips (email, video, lunch & learn)
- Use free resources (RightNow Media, Lifeway, etc.)
1: Send
Provide Opportunities – Support – Encourage
- Launch “Serve Saturdays”
- Celebrate first-time servers from the stage
- Follow up within 48 hours: “How was your first Sunday serving?”
- Support with tools, budget, and prayer

